A Father’s journey
I’m Michael, dad to my two-year-old son, Zebulan. I always imagined being a stay-at-home dad, and when Covid hit, I got to live that dream, caring for our two little ones. My wife, Jordan, and I were thrilled to discover we were expecting our third child. But our excitement quickly turned to fear when, at a routine scan, doctors discovered our baby boy had a serious heart condition called TAPVD, with little chance of survival.
The Rollercoaster of Emotions
When Zebby was born via c-section, he was immediately whisked away for emergency care. I was torn—my wife recovering in one hospital, and my newborn son fighting for his life in another. In those weeks, Zebby underwent multiple surgeries, including heart and brain operations. I was doing everything I could to support my family, but I felt invisible, like my needs didn’t matter. The weight of it all was crushing.
A Beacon of Hope: Keech
When we were referred to Keech Hospice, the word “hospice” scared me. But I quickly learned Keech is a place for life, not just for the end. It became our sanctuary—a space where we could be together as a family, where I could finally breathe.
Zebby loves it at Keech. We attend play sessions, daycare, and even have overnight stays. It’s hard for me to let go, but knowing he’s safe gives me peace. The Keech team supports all of us, not just Zebby or Jordan, but me too. They make sure I feel heard, valued, and included. Meeting other dads who get it has been a lifeline, and having a space to share my feelings has been transformative.
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